

Things That Happened:
- I discovered “The Chemistry” by Victon on my way to work on my 26th birthday.
- I went to my first kpop concert to see ITZY back in January.
- I went out to a happy hour with my coworkers one day after work.
- I went to visit Tori in Florida as my first official plane trip.
- Lots of Quarantine thinking…
- I started to collect Kpop albums and photocards during the summer.
- I opened up a kpop trading/selling account & collection account on Instagram.
- I met my best friend through the kpop community over the summer.
- I wrote, revised, and submitted my journal article this year.
- I decided to try dating out and downloaded an online dating app.
- I went on my first date with a man for the first time.
- I celebrated a Friendsmas through video chat as we opened gifts.
- I am ending the year almost completed the Bariatrics Program.
Things I’ve Learned:
- Despite it being the first birthday I spent by myself, sometimes music discoveries will literally change your life.
- Even if you’re by yourself doing things, do things because you absolutely can.
- Hanging outside with your coworkers outside of work is literally normal despite people telling me otherwise.
- Never be afraid to try new things no matter scary they are; you never know how much you’ll enjoy yourself.
- Even when society stops, the world keeps on going.
- If something makes you happy, do it without any shame…
- … because you might just find a community that you belong in!
- I am able to have and hold meaningful friendships in my life.
- Productivity is sometimes the best way to stay focused and out of your own mind.
- There’s nothing to lose, so why not try it to say that you tried it?
- New things and experiences are scary, but they make good practice and good stories to tell.
- Even for the most socially anxious person, being around friends during a holiday season is the happiest feeling in the world.
- I am capable of changing my life.
